...There's This Girl...

Before I even consider a girl, I ask myself this make-it-or-break-it question.

How to Make the Right Choice EVERY TIME

In life there are many decisions and choices that we make: Some good ones and some bad ones. We often ask God to help us make the right choice. Often he does, in great detail through His word, aka the Bible. Sometimes there is no way to know what God wants you to do. Is this because these are unimportant choices that God doesn’t care about? No. He cares about you, what job you have, what girl/boy you pursue, what school you go to, even what you wear. For those and other choices you make that are not clearly outlined in the Bible, how can you know for certain that you are making the right decision? I learned the secret…

What Men Want More Than Sex

   Do you remember when Facebook quizzes were all over the place? Maybe they still are, but there was one titled “Reasons to be Single” which had you select what you considered to be pros to being single. I was about to do the survey when I realized that all of the options it presented either contradicted my reasons for wanting to be married, were immoral, or were just plain stupid. Some of the options said things like “being able to flirt with whoever,” or “freedom to casually date anybody,” and “Not having to worry about, take care of or share with your partner.”

   I have heard it said that the one thing a man wants even more than sex is to exert his strength. That is so true for me but not in the way that I think the speaker was talking about. What that strength is to me is the ability to give everything I can for, serve and love the one and only girl for me, with all of my heart. By God’s grace I have the capacity and strength to do all of that, but because I am single I can’t exert that strength yet.

Or can I?...